SPRING/SUMMER GUY

This spring brought months of flirtation with a guy of which I thought would turn into something. After months of waiting to know what was going on I asked him out and got "Well I'm sorta seeing someone, we see other people, I think I should give her the holidays since she's stuck with me so long, but ya we should do something together".

He said give him some time and he would figure out a time when we would go out together. During that time I had plenty of time to figure out what I would say to him when I turned him down. I'm not stupid! I know when three's a crowd. Who wants to be second in someones life? I'm not desperate enough to go for someone else's boyfriend. Because what I'm getting from him is he's still involved with her. Needless to say he never brought it up again so I didn't have to tell him to NO.

Lessons Learned:

I learned If a guy is interested he will make it happen, but if I'm tired of wondering what is going on, I have enough courage to ask what's going on.

I learned that some guys are always looking for something better just around the corner.

I learned that If a guy doesn't ask me out, he's just not that into me!